But first let me ask you: Are you trying to figure out how to make woman super attracted to you? About a year ago this simple quest, seemed not so simple to me, in fact I had become obsessed with this idea, and it had become my entire life purpose, it was truly all I could think of. Or said in other word, it was and still are one of my greatest goals in life. A lot of stuff falls into place those few nights. And when the next weekend came, I felt ready, I felt motivated, I felt I had an Idea on how to seduce women.
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You must accept it for what it is. For example, the nature of my dog is that he will only bark; he will never talk to me in English. To expect otherwise would not only be slightly crazy, but it would leave me disappointed for the rest of my life. I would expect something he could never do. The same is true of our expectations of women. They have a nature, which we are about to analyze and discuss. To argue against these things — to argue against the way things are — is to cause certain frustration, anxiety, and anger.
There are certain traits that people have, and you cannot wish or hope them to be different; they can only be accepted. You are the one reacting to them. Remember to see things as they are, not as you wish them to be. Be brave enough to face the Principle of Truth. Such as: - What will you learn? The Victorious army wins first and then seeks battle. The Defeated army battles first and then seeks victory. You must be. How do I know? Because you are doing what most men will not do: You are seeking to better your understanding of women and relationships.
Think about it, women are given all the advantages over men in the area of relationships. Women share information freely, and they help each other out. When was the last time you asked a male friend how to handle a relationship situation? Men are socialized as individuals, relying on our own wits and wiles. This program will help you understand women, get more dates, and have more success in your dating. The good and the bad.
The truth is, I learned more from the failures, so I wrote this to save you some of that pain and give you all of the gain. I feel I have a gift of perception, to see the dynamics that evolve between men and women, and I want to spread this word so that men and women will benefit. Take what I give you and own it. Make it personal and authentic, memorize it, re-write it, and then get to work.
This book will give you the finest martial arts moves on the block. Your Kung Fu will be the best. Willing is not enough, we must do. There is no single rule, and male-female interactions are always a Dynamic.
However, there are many common themes, and these can be understood. I seek to give you the fundamental understanding of the situations you are most likely to find yourself in, and why you are in it. You need to consider the pathology — the deviation from a normal condition — of your circumstances.
Once you understand these basics, you can often figure out what to do on your own, using a little critical thinking. I do not endorse these methods to be used in a blind, religious way. You take the psychology and circumstances of your situation, couple your new understanding with motivation, and you will take better actions. Not perfect, but better. Dating Dynamics is a system that understands that men and women do not exist in a vacuum. The second you put them together, a very complicated dynamic is created.
Read this book at your own risk. I promise you this will be an unbelievably insightful and invaluable journey into the world of women, dating, and sex. Let me be clear, there is nothing wrong with therapists and what I lovingly refer to as the Pundits.
They try really hard, but their profession often impairs them. You see, they feel they have to tell you the way it should be, rather than the way it really is. Oh, sure, we could argue about what Truth is until we join Socrates and Plato for a discussion in the afterlife, but you need tools now. Once you fully understand and accept the Principle of Truth, you will be ready to make unbelievable strides in your success with women.
We live in a decidedly femalecentric society. Men are the cause of all the problems. They beat their wives! They start wars! And women still earn less money! Suzanne Steinmetz indicate that men are abused at least as much as women. Perhaps more, since men are afraid of the emasculation of reporting these incidents.
Very few of these abusive incidents involve women acting in self-defense. Truth check: Women control media and markets through their buying power.
Who buys most of the books, fiction and non-fiction? Why are there so many chick flicks? Women buy most of the books published each year. Consider books on romance. There has been a distinct shift in American culture, a more feminized approach, if you will. Not all of this is bad, but the parts that delude men into believing that what women want is a man with female sensitivity are complete hogwash.
They laugh, they test me, and they try to challenge my conviction about why advice for dating is necessary. Of course most often they rationalize their situation away, as if their current dry spell is on purpose.
Yeah, they want to be single and sleeping alone. I nod and smile, laughing to myself. I am on a mission … I want to change your life.
I want to change your life — for the better. Why is she doing this to me? That alone is worth the price of change, and I aim to provide you with understanding and tools to make it possible. I want you to become a Dynamic Man. I learned what I could, but they never really told me the Truth. Then, it came to me, like Moses stumbling on the burning bush, and it was as profound a religious experience. The revelation was simple, and it was to change everything I thought about dating and women.
Results are all that matters. There is no consolation prize that feels as good as winning. And, yes, you can accomplish this all with integrity, character, and honor. So, I went on to more dates, more good and bad relationships, but now something had changed.
I was more in control of what I did, and my self-confidence shot through the roof. Women were no longer intimidating to me. No weird crystals, chanting, or meditation mantras. Just the Truth, friends. Let me tell you what this book is not: This is not a get-laid-quick strategy, like other speed seduction programs offer. Dating is a dynamic. Every situation becomes unique, and every inter-relation is an opportunity to learn.
Once you assimilate the concepts that I will pass on in the Dating Dynamics program, you will gain the foundation for life-long success with women. This book does not paint women in a bad light, as evil, or as an adversary. Women are a blessing, and a wonderful addition to our world, if you can understand that they are not a cure for everything wrong in your life, including your loneliness.
Nor are they the center of your life. Women are wonderful, and they are fallible. They are no better or worse than men.
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